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No Disrespect, But Let’s Be Clear. With all due respect, if you ever been loved by a good man baby you would know that there is absolutely nothing wrong with desirability, femininity, or wanting to become the best version of yourself as a woman.
But if a woman does not value men, does not desire marriage, and has no intention of building a covenant with a husband, then she is simply not qualified to teach me or any woman how to love mine or a man.
This is not an insult—it's alignment. Stop listening to that foolishness. Threesomes with her husband. No woman in love with a man would consent to watching her husband sleep with another woman.
Scripture gives us a blueprint:
“Likewise, teach the older women to be reverent in the way they live… Then they can urge the younger women to love their husbands and children.” —Titus 2:3–4 (NIV)
Wisdom flows from experience, not bitterness. From fruit, not frustration. From someone who honors the very thing she is teaching about.
I am not taking counsel from someone who doesn’t want a man lecturing me about why “all men are horrible.” That’s foolishness especially when I know great men. Not mentorship—that’s misdirection. My husband is incredibly good.
I’m guided by truth, by purpose, and by God’s design for womanhood. I desire fruit that reflects covenant, not commentary that breeds contempt. I block that foolishness from my timeline.
