Pleasure Prophet Jordan ….Baby Everything going down but prophecy…. It Might Not Be Prophetic But Definitely Cultural

So let me set the scene for you... Bishop did an interview recently with Sir William —and listen—I’m always excited to see him - Bishop.

 ALWAYS. But I prefer when he's online talking the prophetic. That's when I’m locked in like it’s finals week for some course I'm taking. But baby… this time?

Disappointed. This Time...

And not because of Bishop Jordan’s gift—no, no.

The prophetic at Zoe Ministries stays prophetic.

And not because of William’s subpar interviewing skills.

Chile… William’s interview took us all down a rabbit hole nobody asked for. We’re 30 days away from January—about to walk into a whole new prophetic calendar. 

Some much is happening at Zoe Ministries and instead of hearing what God is showing him for 2026…

We’re back on this topic of his relationship with...Larry Reid.

Again.

Sir… all the books you’ve written, all the revelation you carry, and THIS is the direction? The ball wasn’t just dropped—it rolled across the floor, down the stairs, and out the building.

But I'm not the CEO of Zoe Ministries...yet. 

And since he didn’t give the real gems, I will. 

When Bishop started touching on He and Larry's relationship dynamics, THAT part had me taking notes. 

Because even though the interview itself didn’t give what it was supposed to give, that one section was a whole sermon.

Let’s talk about something that had me clutching my pearls and my journal at the same time...

How People Experience You Matter...

Whew. Let me sip my tea.

See, everybody loves to think they’re the good guy in the story. We all imagine we’re the one giving luxury energy, peace, and premium support in our relationships. 

But let’s be honest—some folks are out here enjoying the relationship while the other person is quietly planning their exit because the “experience” of you is… giving inconvenience.

And that’s the gag:

Just because you love your experience with someone doesn’t mean they love theirs with you.

There are three relationships happening simultaneously in every connection—romantic, platonic, spiritual, or professional:

1. How YOU relate to THEM

Your treatment of them. Your tone. Your respect level.

Is your presence peaceful or is it a full-time job? Do you make them happy?

2. How THEY relate to YOU

Just because you love showing up for them doesn’t mean they show up the same.

Some folks enjoy what YOU give…while giving you nothing....

3. The PURPOSE that brought you together

The assignment. The alignment.
The “why” behind the connection.

These three pieces shape the “experience” someone has of you.

Not your words. Not your promises.
Your experience.

And some of y’all are having a great time in relationships where the other person is quietly suffering—but you can’t see it because you’re too focused on what you enjoy.

And Let Me Say This Clear: Stop Mixing Pleasure With Your..... Mentees

Somebody needs to hear this...

Mentorship is not a playground. 

Now I'm not saying that's what happened. 

I am just giving advice. My opinion. 

You cannot pour into someone, guide someone, shape someone’s path—and then entangle with them.

When you blur roles, you break trust. You break alignment. You break purpose.

You cannot expect to lead someone from the future you’re simultaneously destabilizing.

Keep your mentorship clean, focused, and sacred. 

The prophetic, the professional, and the personal do NOT need to be in a love triangle.

And....Value People While They’re Still in the Building

Let’s talk accountability.
Let’s talk honor.
Let’s talk grown-adult awareness.

If someone is good to you, supportive, loyal, protective, prayerful, and consistent… VALUE THAT.

Don’t wait until they walk away to realize you mishandled something holy.

Y’all be losing covenant connections and then having “revelations” in hindsight. Baby… hindsight is not a spiritual gift.

Some people don’t come twice. 

Both good mentors and mentees don’t come twice.  

Some relationships once lost are gone forever. Don't risk loosing something good. 

My Advice (OPINION):

Value people.

Treat people well.

Know why you’re in their life.
Keep your boundaries clean.
Don't confuse roles.
Don't assume your experience of someone matches theirs.

Because at the end of the day?

Your reputation is what someone experienced—not what you intended.

For the full breakdown, commentary, and the part where I say the things the interview should’ve asked?

Honey… watch my commentary. It’s the clarity the interview didn’t give.