There’s a time to laugh — and a time to honor. And mixing the two takes discernment. But lately, some folks seem more committed to comedy than to character.
Now, I come from a big family. We joked, we laughed, we roasted, especially when you made a mistake. Often times the elders would scold you while giving you love and wisdom through shade.
But our elders had an unspoken rule: celebration time was off-limits.
When it was your moment to shine, they bragged on you like you were the best thing since sweet tea and cornbread.
If you had a history of mess-ups, sure — they might whisper a little truth behind closed doors, give you that wisdom in love. But never — never — would they let your past take center stage during your moment of honor.
Why? Because they understood timing. They knew when to correct and when to cover. And most of all, they knew how to protect the dignity of family.
So tell me why, when Kirk Franklin — a man who has been breaking boundaries in gospel music for decades — is being honored, some folks thought it was the right time to roast him?
Spoiler alert: It wasn’t.
And what really grinds the holy gears? When the world throws shade, some church leaders don’t just stay silent — they co-sign the foolishness.
Like… hello?
Aren’t we on the same team?
Or did y’all get traded and forget to tell the rest of us?
To Bishop Wooden, let's stop acting like we don't dance. Let's stop being worried about the world and more about salvation. Now I am not saying don't honor God, but we are not here to please the world.
I watched the video of Kirk and it just looked like regular dancing. Something we all do at the wedding, at the party, or the BBQs even when saved.
Yes, Kirk is unorthodox.
Yes, his praise has a little bounce to it.
But we all dance.
If Kirk had been caught cheating, lying, or exposed in some scandal, a whole spiritual warfare campaign would have broken out about grace and redemption.
You know the lines:
“We all fall short.”
“Touch not God’s anointed.”
“Let he who is without sin cast the first stone.”
Oh, now we all remember the Bible?
The hypocrisy is sometimes tiring. We protect the one with the five husbands or baby mamas and a burner phone, but you’ll leave the Kirk Franklins of the world out to dry because their praise or lifestyle is not like us.
But this isn’t new.
Jesus faced the same kind of criticism. He healed on the Sabbath. He spent time with sinners. He flipped tables in the temple when worship was being corrupted. He praised a woman with a past who her most expensive perfume on His feet.
In the New Testament, some disciples object, saying the money could have been given to the poor. Jesus defends the woman, stating that she has done a beautiful thing and that they will always have the poor with them, but not always him.
Each time, it wasn’t the world that had a problem with Jesus — it was the religious leaders.
Jesus didn’t fit into their box, and Kirk neither do you.
That doesn’t make you less worthy of honor — it makes him more... Jesus
Kirk, we may not always agree with your methods, but we recognize the fruit of your ministry.
Thank you for being faithful. Thank you for staying bold. Thank you for helping us praise through the pain — and even push through that last set at the gym.