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Whew. Let me start by saying this: evolution is beautiful. We should grow, we should expand, and we should elevate. But baby, there’s a difference between evolving and being scattered. The Lord never called us to be everywhere, doing everything, halfway.
I recently had a heart-to-heart with a dear friend in ministry. He’s got a sweet spirit, a heart for people, and chile—he’s fine. Like “the saints are lining up to be chosen” fine. But... he’s also all over the place. One day it’s music, next day real estate, and now it’s “I’m gonna be a talk show host!” And listen—I love the ambition. I love the creativity. But when I heard him teach the Word? I wanted to pass him a children’s Bible and a snack. It was giving... “Jesus wept” and nothing else.
Now look. If we’re gonna wear the titles—Pastor, Prophet, Teacher, Apostle—we need to wear them with weight. You can’t just claim a calling. You’ve got to be trained, disciplined, and dare I say—mastered in the Word of God. It takes time in His presence. It takes study. It takes mentorship. At the very least, let’s start watching some solid Christian teachings on YouTube instead of scrolling for “likes” and calling it discernment.
I don’t know about y’all, but when I go to church, I need to feel God. I need to feel the oil. I need to leave different than I came. Can we fast and pray again? Can we seek wisdom instead of clout?
Because here’s the truth: God is not in the business of busy. He’s in the business of assignment. And sometimes, He’ll call you to master the ONE thing—not because He wants to limit you, but because that one thing is the key to everything.
Some of us are being overlooked because we’re too busy overlooking the assignment. You want influence? Great. But God wants intimacy. You want to “build a brand”? Cool. But can you build an altar? You want the platform, but do you know the Person?
And can we stop acting like time is on our side? You keep telling God to wait, like He’s on your schedule. But when God shows up, He’s not just stopping by—He’s delivering a miracle. Don’t play yourself thinking He’ll circle back when you’re “ready.” He’s not obligated to keep knocking. Delay too long, and you just might watch someone else walk in your blessing, holding what was meant for you, because you thought God would wait forever.
And sis, while we’re here—can we talk? Just because a man is fine, doesn’t mean he’s your future. Just because he’s in ministry, doesn’t mean he’s mature. Some of these women are out here playing tag with a brother who hasn't fasted in months and doesn’t even know your favorite scripture—let alone how to make you feel seen, heard, or satisfied in any real way. I know he’s got charm. But charm without character? It's giving expired anointing and recycled lines.
Let’s stop wasting time entertaining men who are too busy playing musical chairs with our value, while we wait around hoping to be “chosen.” Girl, you are the prize. Don't settle for being someone’s sermon prop when God called you to be royalty. God always has a ram in the bush!
So let me ask you today:
Are you overlooked? Or are you overlooking the very thing God whispered in your spirit to master?
It’s not about being famous, or flawless, or having five hustles and no fruit. It’s about faithfulness. It’s about getting quiet, getting focused, and getting into God’s face long enough to hear the assignment—and then working it until it multiplies.
You are not called to do it all. You’re called to do it well.
