November will also be a month of divine expansion, says the Spirit of the Lord. Expansion not just in families, but in territories, assignments, and streams of income. I am enlarging your borders and multiplying your reach. What was once small will begin to stretch beyond your imagination.

Be open to witty inventions and unique business ideas, for fresh strategies are being released from Heaven. Some of you will be prompted to travel across the globe—to learn, to connect, and to expand your knowledge. Do not resist the pull of destiny; I am broadening your vision.

Get ready, says the Spirit of the Lord—for I am unlocking global influence and supernatural creativity. But as you move, do not fix your eyes only on the world or the wealth. Keep your heart, mind, and eyes on Me, for I am the source of your abundance and the anchor of your success.

This month, expansion will meet obedience. Increase will meet integrity. And purpose will meet preparation. Walk boldly—your November expansion has begun.

It’s time for you to dream again. The visions you once carried are awakening with fresh oil and renewed authority. I saw you wearing your prayer shawls for a set period of consecration—a holy appointment in time—and as you do, there will be a wave of sons and daughters coming to you.

They will come bearing seeds and services, not for fame but for impartation. The Lord says you will drop mantles upon their shoulders, and they shall carry the weight of your legacy into new territories and nations. Your words will be arrows pointing them in the direction they shall cover.

For even those who are naturally motherless and fatherless, you shall be called to parent. And great shall be your honor. Do not mishandle them or the calling God has placed upon you, for to whom much is given, much shall be required.

Take heed to do what is proper, and I will bless you beyond what you can imagine. You will have no care or lack. You will think it up, and like rain, it shall be handed to you.

And what once was a stain for you will become a pillar of ministry. You shall speak to the oppressed and the oppressor alike. Your voice shall not be silenced but amplified, and God is calling you to be a gatekeeper for the last days.

You shall raise daughters and sons, for many will call you Mother. You shall give birth and become a spiritual Abraham for the prophetic, says the Lord. Your ranking has become heavy, and God will cause you to be a Giant among wolves. You shall devour them at your word.

Your obedience in this season will birth a school of prophets and dreamers. God is resetting your altar for a new generation to encounter Him through the same fire that has sustained you.

Dream again, Woman of God. The mantles are waiting. The gates are opening. Step boldly.

Beloved, the Spirit of the Lord says, “You’ve endured the refining fire, but November marks the beginning of your divine establishment season.”

What was once unstable will now become secure. The areas of your life that have felt uncertain — your finances, relationships, confidence, and calling — are being brought under divine order. 

The warfare you’ve faced in previous months wasn’t punishment; it was establishment.

The Lord says, “I was not trying to break you down — I was burning away what could not go with you.”

You have been refined by the fire, and now you are emerging as pure gold.

This month, God is not only blessing you; He is giving you divine value.

He’s elevating your worth, your voice, and your visibility — not for vanity, but for purpose.

Where people once overlooked you, they will now recognize the anointing and authority you carry. Where doors once refused to open, favor will now swing them wide. This is not about chasing opportunity — it’s about divine placement. Some will be rewarded, relocated, and released in order to receive the blessing.

The Lord says:

“I am establishing your name in places your feet have yet to walk.

I am bringing stability to what once felt unstable.

I am restoring honor to what was once broken.

This month, I will make visible what I have been building in secret.”

This is a settling season — where what was delayed is delivered, and what was lost is restored with increase. Expect divine confirmation, strategic alignment, and heavenly partnerships. Pay attention to details this month — God is sending signs of establishment in contracts, connections, and communications.

November will be marked by a new level of grace and divine validation. Heaven is affirming what you carry. Your worth isn’t determined by man’s approval; it’s being sealed by God’s appointment.

You are not just being blessed — you are being established in identity, influence, and impact.

Scripture to Stand On:

“And the God of all grace, who called you to His eternal glory in Christ, after you have suffered a little while, will Himself restore you and make you strong, firm, and steadfast.”  — 1 Peter 5:10 (NIV)

Prophetic Instructions for November:

Stay planted. Don’t run from what God is stabilizing — the soil of your obedience will produce fruit.

Since moving to this new area, I’ve gotten used to seeing a certain man every morning standing right in the middle of the street. At first, I wasn’t quite sure what he was doing. One day, curiosity got the best of me, and I stopped to ask.

Turns out, he was selling cakes.

I laughed and teased, “Now, you know you’re trying to make me fat!”

He chuckled but said something that stopped me in my tracks:

“I’m just trying to teach my son about entrepreneurship.”

I looked over and saw a young boy watching quietly nearby. My heart melted. That moment stuck with me — not because of the cakes, but because of the purpose behind what he was doing.

Fast forward a few days later, I passed by again. This time, he was selling newspapers. I smiled and asked playfully, “Is this free?”

He said, “For a donation — anything, even ten cents.” Then he pointed again and said, “There’s my son.”

Sure enough, his son crossed the street, learning, watching, helping. I was so moved, I donated without hesitation. That’s when he looked at me and said,

“Jesus saves, but He uses people.”

That one line hit me like a sermon in the middle of the sidewalk.

He never got an attitude. He never begged. He never tried to prove his worth. His peace and purpose spoke for him. And without realizing it, he turned a skeptic into a supporter. He increased his value just by being — calm, confident, and led by something higher.

And that phrase — Jesus saves, but He uses people — has been echoing in my mind ever since.

Because he’s right. Sometimes, as believers, we forget that part. We’re waiting for God to come down and fix it all.

But history shows throughout Scripture, God used people to bring His plans to life:

He used Moses to deliver His people out of Egypt. In Exodus 3:9–10 (NIV),  God said “And now the cry of the Israelites has reached me, and I have seen the way the Egyptians are oppressing them. So now, go. I am sending you (talking to Moses), to Pharaoh to bring my people the Israelites out of Egypt.

He used Deborah to lead a nation with strength and grace. Deborah was a prophetess and judge of Israel — the only woman in the Bible recorded as holding that position. 

Each one of them did extraordinary things because of their obedience to God.

That man in the street reminded me of something so simple yet so profound: sometimes the “help” you’re praying for is standing right in front of you, wrapped in flesh. 

And maybe, just maybe, you’re the vessel God wants to use next.

Because Jesus saves… but He uses people.

When I was a kid, teachers used to have us write those papers on nature vs. nurture. It’s crazy because I had to be in the second or third grade.

The big question was always the same: Are we products of our environment? Are products of your own nature?

And me, being the optimistic little kid I was, I would argue, “No, you’re not a product of your environment. You can be great just based on who you are as a person.” It’s wild though, because even back then, I understood my environment wasn’t the best. But I was still determined to believe I could rise above it.

Now, as an adult, I see things a little different. I still believe greatness is in you, but I’ve also learned that your environment plays a bigger role than I wanted to admit. You can be as gifted as you want to be, but if you’re constantly surrounded by the wrong people—even family—it can choke out your potential. It can block you, stifle you, and in some cases, destroy your destiny.

Jesus showed us this. In His own hometown, Scripture says, “He did not do many mighty works there because of their unbelief.” (Matthew 13:58). Think about that—His gift didn’t stop working, but the environment shut it down.

Then you see Him with the woman at the well. He shifts her whole perspective, saying, “If you knew the gift of God, and who it is that says to you, ‘Give Me a drink,’ you would have asked Him, and He would have given you living water.”(John 4:10). One conversation changed her environment, and it changed her life.

And in that crowd of over five thousand, He took one little boy’s lunch and multiplied it. “Jesus then took the loaves, gave thanks, and distributed to those who were seated as much as they wanted.” (John 6:11). That environment was full of faith and expectation, and look what happened—a miracle.

So yeah… I’ve come to realize environment is detrimental to becoming greater. Maybe the “glass ceiling” isn’t always this invisible wall we talk about. Maybe it’s our circle. 

Maybe it’s our refusal to step into new rooms, meet new people, and learn new things. Because sometimes, the only thing standing between where you are and where you’re meant to be—is the environment you keep settling for.

I remember my bishop. He had this massive vision—a church, a campus, programs, things that could change lives. But the truth is, he never got to see that vision fully realized. And I’ll never forget him admitting that he knew he probably wouldn’t finish it. Looking back, I think he already understood why: he didn’t have the right people.

And that’s the thing. A lot of times, when you see people not where they should be, it’s not because they aren’t gifted or they don’t have a dream. It’s because they don’t have the right community. They’ve got folks around them working against them, not for them.

When I was younger, I didn’t believe that. I thought, “Nah, environment doesn’t matter. It’s all about your mindset.” And mindset does matter—it’s powerful. But I’ve learned mindset can only take you so far if you’re planted in the wrong environment.

So then the question becomes: what do you do when the environment you need doesn’t exist? Sometimes, you have to build it. Sometimes, you have to be the one who brings people together.

I used to wonder why companies would fly someone from across the world to fill a position when they could easily find talent locally. Why move someone from one place to another? It seemed unnecessary. But now I get it—it’s not just about skill, it’s about chemistry. It’s about creating the right environment, the right mix of people, so the organization can go where it needs to go.

Because if you don’t have the right people around you, you’re not going far. Period.

There’s an African proverb that says, “If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together.” But I’d take it a step further—it’s not just “together.” It’s together with the right people.

So if you’re feeling stifled, blocked, or like your life keeps getting cut back… check your environment. Look at the people around you. Ask yourself, How are they adding to me? How are they pushing me closer to where I’m trying to go?

And if you can’t answer that, then maybe it’s time to let some people go. Because your environment can either be the soil that grows you—or the weight that keeps you grounded.

October is the month of open doors and divine clarity. What once felt delayed will suddenly align. The Spirit of the Lord says: “This is not the season of waiting in vain, but the season of My perfect timing. I am removing the veil of confusion and revealing the obvious path I’ve prepared for you.”

Many will feel a shift from survival to overflow. Where there has been lack, God is sending increase. Where there has been silence, He is sending confirmation. The very things that seemed out of reach will begin to manifest—not by striving, but by My Spirit.

This is also a time to continue in My Word and in prayer. Stay rooted in Scripture, stay consistent in devotion. In the secret place, I will strengthen you and give you discernment for the doors I am opening. Do not grow weary in prayer, for your persistence is pulling down blessings.

This is also a month of separation and consecration. Be intentional with your time, your prayers, and your focus. Do not run back to closed doors; I am unlocking new ones that will carry you into purpose.

The Lord says: “I am establishing My daughters and sons in new authority. I am giving keys—keys of favor, keys of wisdom, keys of acceleration. Watch as I open doors no man can shut. October will mark the beginning of testimonies that you will carry into the new year.”

Step into October with expectancy, not fear. What is obvious to you is obvious to God—and He is about to bring it forth in His perfect way.

A Possible Prophetic Word You Can Proclaim

Here’s something you might say over your life this October, aligning with these themes:

“This October, I walk out of delay into my God-ordained timing. Doors are opening for me—doors of favor, opportunity, and breakthrough. I step into overflow: abundance in my finances, health, relationships, and purpose. What has felt obvious but still unrealized, I receive now. I consecrate myself to God, trusting that through prayer, obedience, and faith, I will see manifestation. In Jesus’ name.”

After being single for a while, it’s easy to start believing the right person just isn’t coming. But here’s the truth: just like in business, love rewards those who take action.

Successful entrepreneurs and professionals don’t hesitate to hire help in other areas of their lives. They bring in a realtor when buying property. They invest in a coach when leveling up in business. So why wouldn’t they bring in a matchmaker when it’s time to find love?

Dating Is Not a Numbers Game

Contrary to what online dating apps want you to believe, swiping through endless profiles doesn’t bring you closer to finding “the one.” Quantity doesn’t equal quality.

That’s why more busy professionals are realizing online dating isn’t built for them. Between misleading profiles, mixed intentions, and time wasted on dead-end conversations, apps often feel like a full-time job—without the payoff.

Another study (involving 923 married couples) found that those who met their spouses online had lower rates of stability and satisfaction compared with those who met in person (via friends, work, etc.). 

Think about it: a dating site’s algorithm can match people based on hobbies, but that’s basically like walking into a virtual bar where everyone happens to like the same music. Sure, it’s a start, but it says nothing about true compatibility. And worse—algorithms can’t spot dishonesty. If someone isn’t being truthful, the computer has no idea.

Matchmaking = A Warm Introduction

Here’s where matchmaking shines: it’s like receiving a warm introduction from a trusted business associate. Instead of walking blind into a room full of strangers, you’re meeting someone who has already been vetted, screened, and is genuinely interested in a serious relationship.

A professional matchmaker takes time to understand you—your past experiences, your values, your goals—and then hand-selects potential matches who actually align with what you’re looking for. They cut through the sugarcoating, the half-truths, and the “too good to be true” profiles.

In other words: they do the heavy lifting so you can focus on making a real connection.

You’re Never Alone in the Process

Re-entering the dating world can feel like walking into uncharted territory. Do you text back now or later? Should you ask that question yet? Was that comment a red flag or just nerves?

While friends might offer advice here and there, a matchmaker is dedicated to you and your love life. They’re there to guide you through every step, give feedback, and help you stick to your standards so you don’t settle for less than you deserve.

It’s the difference between cold calling and being introduced through a warm referral. With a matchmaker, you already know the other person is open, invested, and just as interested in meeting as you are. The awkward guessing game? Gone.

Privacy Matters

For entrepreneurs and professionals, privacy is priceless. Apps require you to put your personal details online for the world to see. A matchmaker, on the other hand, prioritizes confidentiality. Many even use nondisclosure agreements so that your personal life stays exactly that—personal.

Matchmakers Are Serendipity-Makers

At the end of the day, matchmakers aren’t selling you on casual flings or endless swiping. Their only goal is to help you find the lasting love you’ve been waiting for. They have the eye, the intuition, and the experience to see who belongs together—and who doesn’t.

They remove the stress, the uncertainty, and the wasted time, giving you something far more valuable: the chance to meet someone who’s genuinely aligned with your values, goals, and future.

The Bottom Line

If you’re serious about finding love, don’t leave it up to luck—or worse, an algorithm. Hire a matchmaker. Think of it as the most important investment you’ll ever make—because unlike a business deal, this one’s about building your happily ever after.

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Growing up, the best advice I ever received was simple: “They criticized Jesus, so you know people are going to talk about you.”

That wisdom stuck with me. It’s why I’m often baffled when people act shocked at criticism. I receive it often—and while some of it stings, I’ve learned to separate what’s meant to harm from what can help.

Some critics, believe it or not, are your greatest allies. They hold up a mirror that friends rarely do. Friends will cheer you on, but enemies? They’ll point out your flaws. And if you’re wise enough to filter through the noise, those flaws can become areas of growth. Enemies refine you in ways friends can’t.

Jesus was constantly criticized by religious leaders, the Pharisees and Sadducees. They called Him a blasphemer (John 10:33), accused Him of breaking the Sabbath (Matthew 12:2), and even mocked Him for eating with “sinners” (Luke 5:30).

Instead of shrinking back, Jesus used their criticism as a platform to clarify His mission. Every time they tried to trap Him with words, He responded with wisdom that silenced them (Matthew 22:46).

His critics gave Him an opportunity to teach deeper truths—and in the end, their attempts to discredit Him only revealed His authority.

The Israelites criticized Moses relentlessly—complaining about food, water, and even his leadership (Exodus 16:2-3; Numbers 14:2). Yet those complaints taught Moses to lean on God more. Instead of fighting back with his own strength, Moses constantly went into prayer. The criticism refined his humility and made him a stronger leader.

When Nehemiah rebuilt the walls of Jerusalem, his enemies (Sanballat and Tobiah) mocked and ridiculed the work, saying it would crumble (Nehemiah 4:3). Instead of quitting, Nehemiah turned their words into fuel. He prayed, stayed focused, and used the opposition as motivation to rally his people. Their criticism became the spark for his determination.

David was criticized by his own brothers when he went to fight Goliath—they said he was arrogant and just looking for attention (1 Samuel 17:28). Rather than let that stop him, David proved his critics wrong through action. He trusted God, fought Goliath, and showed that sometimes criticism is a sign that you’re stepping into territory others can’t see yet.

But there’s a difference. A true critic challenges your work, your ideas, or your approach. A malicious person aims to wound and destroy you. 

Once you recognize that line, it’s easier to decide what to absorb and what to ignore. There’s a reason the Golden Rule says, ‘Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.’ If you wouldn’t want it done to you, don’t do it to someone else.

The Roman empire, represented by Pontius Pilate, saw Him as a potential threat to order. They mocked Him with a crown of thorns, flogged Him, and sentenced Him to death by crucifixion—the ultimate humiliation. Yet, Rome’s attempt to destroy Him only fulfilled prophecy and spread His message farther than they ever imagined.

Judas, one of His own disciples, sold Him out for thirty pieces of silver (Matthew 26:15). Betrayal always hurts deeper when it’s from someone close, but Jesus used even that pain to complete His mission. Judas’ actions set in motion the very events that led to salvation.

The same people who shouted “Hosanna!” one week later shouted “Crucify Him!” (Matthew 27:22). Public opinion is fickle. Jesus didn’t live for their applause, so He wasn’t destroyed by their rejection. He kept His eyes on the Father’s will, not the crowd’s approval.

I even stopped watching television because of how overly critical people became. Every show has characters with distinct personalities and roles. Some we cheer for, others we criticize. That’s part of the entertainment. But imagine if those characters carried resentment for our opinions—Victor from the soap operas coming after my aunts because they didn’t like him that week! Absurd, right? Yet the drama, the emotion, the critique—that’s what kept audiences glued to the screen season after season.

Today, it feels different. People stop watching shows—or even supporting people—because they fear criticism, backlash, or disagreement. That saddens me. Because life itself is full of criticism. Some you take in, learn from, and grow. Others you simply move past.

At the end of the day, criticism isn’t the enemy. Sometimes, it’s the very thing pushing you closer to your best self.

When you look at the life of Jesus, you see a blueprint for success that still applies today. No matter how gifted or called you are, you cannot do it alone. There are three types of people you absolutely need in your corner if you’re going to fulfill your purpose: a role model, a support system, and a fan.

First, you need a role model or mentor — someone who can provide wisdom, advice, and insight from a place of experience. Jesus looked to the Father and also drew from the examples of the prophets before Him. A role model helps you see what’s possible, keeps you grounded in vision, and gives you a framework to model your own journey after. Having someone who has walked the path before you is like carrying a compass through unfamiliar territory.

Second, you need a support system — the people who stand with you when things get hard. Jesus had his disciples, Martha, Mary, and the other women disciples, who did more than just cheer from the sidelines. They funded His ministry, traveled with Him, and most importantly, they remained present at the cross when nearly everyone else ran away. A true support system doesn’t disappear when you’re under pressure; they hold you up, sometimes quietly, but with fierce loyalty.

Finally, you need at least one fan — someone who simply delights in your success, your joy, and your wins. A fan doesn’t need the spotlight or a title. They just want to see you win.

They may not be your mentor or even your closest confidant, but they genuinely want to see you happy and fulfilled. In Jesus’ time, that looked like the children who flocked to Him with pure admiration, or even the outsiders who celebrated His authority without needing anything in return. 

John the Baptist – He openly said “He must increase, but I must decrease” (John 3:30). He celebrated Jesus’ rise without trying to keep followers for himself.

Anna the prophetess (Luke 2:36–38) – She worshiped in the Temple day and night. When she saw Jesus, she gave thanks and spoke about Him to others — no expectation of reward.

The crowd that would gather around Jesus- he needed them. 

The Roman centurion at the cross – After witnessing Jesus’ death, he declared, “Surely this was the Son of God”(Matthew 27:54). No attachment, just recognition of who He truly was

Joseph of Arimathea & Nicodemus – They cared for His body after the crucifixion (John 19:38–42). That was a dangerous, costly act, and they didn’t benefit personally. They just wanted to honor Him.

In our lives, a fan can be that a teacher, a neighbor, friend, family member, or supporter who claps the loudest no matter how small or big the victory.

And here’s the truth: when you think about someone who is struggling — maybe failing in life — often, they are lacking one of these three somewhere. Maybe they don’t have a mentor to show them the way, or a support system to catch them when they fall, or even a single fan who believes in them. Success doesn’t grow in isolation. Struggle multiplies when you’re left alone.

When you combine these three — a mentor to guide you, a support system to steady you, and a fan to celebrate you — you create a circle of strength that allows you to keep going, even when the world feels heavy. Jesus showed us that success isn’t built in isolation. It’s built in community.